Let’s work together to find a balance point
Dear mom and dad:
A warm family , a fantastic surroundings are the best gift which you have given me since I was born. I don’t know how to express my appreciation for what you have done to me. But I exactly need to talk with you.
There is no denying that every parents have a high expectation to their children’s future and it’s true of you .But the regulation you made is too strict so that I spend all my time on it even can’t do anything I’m interested in. Could we find a balance to make both of us happy?
I’m not allowed to make grades lover than A. I can’t have a play crate and choose my own extracurricular activities .There is no computer or TV .Notwithstanding it enable me to get good grades but at the same time it’s impossible for to enjoy the happiness when spend time with friend and play sports. Furthermore , now our society need the person who is all-round development and success in school work can’t decide everything .The skill of how to get along with people , the creativity and the international visual field are also significant for now students . So when the family education are put into much
pressure and rules , it will become a burden to us and even get in the way of our growth. You don’t want to see that ,don’t you?
As a matter of fact . I admit that we need to be pushed sometime . The expectation and pressure come from parents can be a dynamics that contribute us to do better . our all success no matter in studying or other aspects is based on family education . Therefore , finding a balance between your expectation and my own life is necessary . If so , not only can you still be proud of my great grades but also I can enjoy the things I am interested in and study more effectively .
Finally , I want to say I’m always very appreciative of being your daughter
Your daughter
May.27th 2011
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