i don’t know what that dream is that you have, i don’t care how disappointing it might have been as you’ve been working toward that dream, but that dream that you’re holding in your mind, that it’s possible!
some of you already know, that it’s hard, it’s not easy, it’s hard changing your life. that in the process of working on your dreams you are going to incur a lot of disappointment, a lot of failure, a lot of pain. there are moments that you are going to doubt yourself. you said, god why is this happening to me? i’m just trying to take care of my family, trying to give them a good life, i’m not trying to steal or rob from anybody. why does this have to happen to me. for those of you that have experienced some hardships – don’t give up on your dream.
the rough times are gonna come, but they have not come to stay, they have come to pass. greatness, is not this wonderful, esoteric, illusive, god like feature that only the special among can achieve. it’s something that truly exists, in all of us. it’s very important for you to believe that you are the one!
most people they raise a family, they earn a living and then they die. they stop growing, they stop working on themselves, they stop stretching, the stop pushing themselves. then a lot of people like to complain but they don’t wanna do anything about their situation. and most people don’t work on their dreams – why?
1. is because of fear, fear of failure “what if things don’t work out“?
2. is fair of success “what if they do and i can’t handle it?”
these are not risk takers
you have spent so much time with other people, you have spent so much time trying to get people to like you, you know other people more than you know yourself. you’ve studied them, you know about them, you want to hang out with them, you want to be just like them. you’ve invested so much time on them, you don’t know who you are. i challenge you to spend time by yourself.
it’s necessary, that you get the losers out of your life, if you want to live your dream. but people who are running towards their dreams, life has a special kind of meaning. when you become the ‘right-person’, what you do is you start separating yourself from other people you begin to have a certain uniqueness, as long as you follow other people, as long as you are being a ‘copy-cat’, you will never ever be the best copy-cat in the world but you will be the best you can be!
i challenge you to define your value.
everybody won’t see it, everybody won’t join you, everybody won’t have the vision…it’s necessary to know that you are an uncommon breed. it’s necessary that you align yourself with people and attract people into your business, who are hungry, people who are unstoppable and unreasonable, people who are refusing to live life just as it is and who want more!the people that are living their dreams are parting with winners, to attach themselves to the and the people who are living their dreams are the people that know that if it’s going to happen it’s up to them!
if you want to be more successful, if you want to have and do stuff you never done before then i’m asking you to invest in you!
someones opinion of you does not have to become your reality.
you don’t have to go through life being a victim. and even though you face disappointments, you have to know within yourself that ‘i can do this, even if no one else sees it for me, i must see it for myself!’
no matter how bad it is, how hard it gets, say to yourself, i’m going to make it!i wanna represent an idea. i wanna represent possibilities. some of you right now, you wanna go to the next level. you wanna be a civil engineer, you wanna council, you wanna be a doctor.listen to me: you can’t get to that level. you can’t get to that level until you start to invest in your mind
i dare you to invest in your mind.
i dare you to invest time.
i dare you to be alone.
i dare you to spend an hour alone to get to know yourself.
i challenge you to get to a place where people do not like or do not even bother you anymore. why? because you’re not concerned with making them happy anyway. because you’re trying to blow up. you’re trying to get to the next level. because you’re investing in your mind.
if you’re still talking about your dream and your goals but you have not done anything just take the first step.
you can make your parents proud, you can make your school proud you can touch millions of peoples lives and the world will never be the same again because you came this way. don’t let anybody steal your dream!
after we face a rejection and a “no” or we have a meeting and no one shows up, or somebody says “you can count on me” and they don’t come through, what if we have that kind of attitude that cause reposes, nobody believes in you, you’ve lost again, and again, the lights are cut off but you are still looking at your dream, reviewing it everyday and saying to yourself: it’s not over until i win!
you can live your dream
我不知道你有什么样的梦想,我不在乎你朝着梦想前进时曾遇上什么样的困难,那个你在心上想了又想的梦想,它是有可能达成的。虽然你可能觉得,它太困难了,它并不简单,要改变你的生命很难。为梦想打拼的过程中,你会遇上无数的打击、无数的失败、无数的痛楚。你会有质疑自己的时候,会问上苍“为何这就是我的命运?”我不过是想照顾我的小孩父母,又不是去偷去抢,为何这样的事会发生在我身上?
曾经遇到过难堪的人,不要放弃你的梦想。艰难的日子会到来,但它们终将成为过往。
伟大的成就并非虚幻不切实际,并非像神一样只有卓越不凡的人才当得了,它是真实地存在于我们每个人心中。重要的是你必需相信——你做得到。
大部分的人成家立业,日复一日然后老死。他们停止成长,停止锻炼自己,停止试图超越自己,然后还有人很爱抱怨却不尝试改变现状。多数人都不想为自己的梦想努力,为什么?原因之一就是害怕失败,“万一事情不如预期怎么办?”再来就是害怕成功,“万一成功后我没能力掌控怎么办?”他们完全不想承担风险。
你花了大量的时间与他人交际,想让别人喜欢你,你认识他人比认识自我更多。你观察他们,知道他们一切事情,想跟他们混在一块儿,变得跟他们一样。然而你知道吗?花了那么多时间在他们身上,最终却失去自我。我要你学会与自己坦诚相处。如果你想达成梦想,就必需将你内心的鲁莽去除。
朝自己梦想前进的人,生命会有截然不同的特殊意义。当你找到了自我,慢慢地你会与他人有所不同,开始拥有自己的特质。但若你只懂跟随他人脚步以及模仿他人,你永远无法变成最强的模仿者。但你可以成为最优秀的自己,我要你找到自己的价值。
其他人看不见,无法参与,也不会为你拓展视野。这是你要了解的。你是独一无二的,我要你结交志同道合的人、渴望成功的人、努力不懈的人,那些想要重新打造生命的人,与达成梦想的人相处。达成梦想的人知道:成功与否都在自己!如果你想要更有成就,如果你想要做从未做过的事,那你就必须投资自己。一定要投资自己。
不要让他人的成见成为自己现实的一部分,不要抱着受难者的心态渡过一生,就算你遇上了气馁的事。也要知道你做得到。就算别人不相信,你也要有自信。
这是我所相信的,至死不渝。不论情况多遭,未来有多险恶 我都办得到!
我想要代表一个信念,代表一个可能性:你们有些人可能再想要更上一层,想要有自己的协会、想当工程师或医师,相信我你到不了的。你到不了你想到的层级,除非你开始培育自己的心力。你根本连读书的习惯都没有,我要你去听听演说。懂得花时间与自己相处,花个一个小时试图了解自己,直到你找到了自我。当你活出了自我,活出了属于自己该有的命运,当你是一个独特的个体,你就会与周遭的人有所不同。我要你做别人不要你做的事,达到别人不想理会你的领域,因为这样你就不会整天想着该如何取悦他们。因为你想要与众不同,你想要更上一层,我要你培育你自己的心力。
如果你还在谈论你的梦想,还在谈论你的目标,但却什么都没做,那就先踏出第一步。你可以让你的父母骄傲,让你的学校骄傲,你可以感动百万人的生命,世界会因为有你而不同。因为你选择这条路!
别让其他人毁了你的梦想!在别人拒绝了或说不时,或在某个会面你被放鸽子,又或者有人取得了你的信任却无法兑现承诺,及时自己的心态使你停下脚步,一次又一次的迷失了动力,还是要每天反复地想着自己的梦想。然后跟自己说游戏还没结束,直到我胜利!
你可以实现你的梦想!
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